Sex and the City VS Friday



Hollywood?

First I am willing to admit that sometimes I am anti-hollywood not because its hollywood but having opportunities to work in the industry I know from experience it is not what its hyped up 2 be and because alot of things I see just seem so distant from reality, cliche and ingenuine. However, there are some really good works that are created from the heart and not only to make a dollar but to make statements and represent the voices of the unheard and unspoken. It bothers me how some people prejudge without ever allowing there assumptions to be challenged or proven otherwise. To me, this is ignorance at its best.

I am not going to lie, since the movie Sex and the city came out, I refused to watch it because to me it has no connection to my lifestyle preference and just seem so unrealistic from the lives of the majority. After much thought, I decided to watch the film because whether i agreed with it or not, it is someones creation. So I did and I actually ended up really enjoying the film. I mean in tears more than once enjoying the film and will be going to watch part 2 =). Of course i have my critiques but hey some people do spend 500 on shoes and think nothing of it. The movie made statements on life from different perspetives and of course it just the southern girl who helps Carrie get her life back in order which can be viewed from many perspectives, I am going to take the positive one in this case. While it has a stereotypes that are constantly reinforced in almost every successful mainstream film which is one of my anti hollywood protest, this reality exist to some.
I have learned that the social constructs we build off of are only significant because of the approach of the conversation and also ones own life experience. When critiquing a film like Sex and the City my first argument would be that the first time you see a black person with any significance she is assistant to this well known white author who buys her her first real Louis Vuitton so she no longers has to rent them and the line that follows is "the best dollar I ever spent". As a filmmaker working towards social change and creating a voice for minorities in the industry i would not have made that choice. I mean, why couldn't one of the girls be black or one of the husbands. However, I am well aware that this is how the some people lives function.
The question I am trying to raise though is as an artist how do we stay true to ourselves and our own reality without feeding into these stereotypes. The media plays such an important role in creating our world views. Looking back at films like Friday or Baby Boy which can be criticized for being poor representations of the black community but also just wanting the world to understand that this too is not far from the realities of some but still being flexible and open to a film like Sex in the City having a all black cast because this too can be our reality and is for some.

The Artist thoughts...

Turning 21!


So young world,

My 21st is quickly approaching. Sending much love and plenty of thanks to God, my mother, father, family, the mentors, teachers, friends and support in general. I could never have made it this far without you all guidance or whatever life experience we share.
I write this with all humbleness on my heart, just looking back on the years and dreaming of the ones to come. First, I have never wanted normal birthday gifts or wanted to do normal things in life for that matter but I remember telling myself that I didn't want to celebrate my 21st in the states and that before I turn 21 I wanted to have experienced 3 countries. If you count the ones in passing then that would make it 6 but experienced, I have met my goal with 3! Quingdao, China was the 1st! Summer of 06'! Studied Mandarin Chinese and their culture. Lifetime experience with life long friends. Chihuahua, Mexico, Spring semester 07'! Produced a film using corn as a window to study Mexican culture! This experience was like no other! I went by myself, with a camera and a dream! no lie! Turned into an AMAZING adventure! Now, Berlin, Germany! Summer semester 10'. Exchange student at Berlin Uni. for the Arts.
For my 16th birthday, I wanted property! At 18, I wanted mutual funds! 21! I want to look at how my investments have grown! Everyone has control over the path they choose, make smart and wise decisions. It is true, you reap what you sow. I have been para sailing over the pacific ocean, Studied at UCLA, Mt. Holyoke, ran the youth program for Rainbow PUSH (Rev. Jesse Jackson organization), introduced President Obama (before he was the president though) and Mayor Daley, cut the ribbon for the opening of the Buckingham Fountain, motivational speaking on almost every coast... I have worked since I was 12 and always jobs that I love. My first job was at a daycare, a kid being paid to watch kids but they use to love me and my boss paid me in cash b/c well, I was too young. lol. I was in charge of the production of a 30 min. TV show weekly for CanTV, channel 19 that aired in Chi-Town and NYC! Scholarship recipient of The Pullman Foundation, Rainbow PUSH, Mayor Daley Chicago Park District, CoCo Cola....There is more that I am grateful for as well! Than, I have been blessed with the BIG one! The Beautner Family Award! of $50,000! and one of the 1st time this scholarship has been rewarded! (Big ups to the rest of the scholars!) Served 2 terms as student trustee, having the opportunity to sit along side of MAJOR successful people that I aspire to be like! Worked along side RENOWNED world leaders, had dinner with May Jemison (the 1st black astronaut), recited poetry to Nikki Giovani herself (sis Nekita saw it with her own eyes) lol, started at least 3 businesses from jewelry to party investments. Honestly, I could keep going but I just wanted to remind myself of these things I don't often appreciate. These years have been filled with excitement. Ups and downs, smiles and frowns, people coming and going, living and loving and I am NOWHERE near finish, not even halfway.
A year from my 21st birthday exactly, I will be graduating from COLLEGE! Seriously, next year graduation falls on my bday! I am happy! I am blessed, grateful and VERY THANKFUL! So let me be the 1st to say it, HAPPY 21st BDAY Whitney! Enjoy!